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Be Quiet

Pinned from: Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Speaking freely about your sins and “mistakes” and confessing them to others doesn’t make you a spiritual giant. Being able to admit when you’re wrong and humbly owning your weaknesses is not enough! The real work is in the quiet commitment to change and be changed. It is in the persistent pursuit of God’s grace to be different – and then actually becoming different.

I am daily inundated with images, quotes and platitudes of others talking about “not being perfect….don’t judge me…it’s so hard for me to get humble…I’m only human….I’m a “real” addict and this is why I behave this way”…blah blah blah. What they are really saying through all the posts, long winded shares and cheesy praise music is that they are not really willing to change.

Real change does not occur when you’ve stopped feeling guilty for your mistakes or because you have finally decided to humble yourself and accept that you have “pride”. How big of you! Umm no sorry! REAL change occurs when you become willing to change. Simple as that.

In the quiet stillness you make a powerful, quiet – committed, no fanfare decision to be willing to go to any length to change. And you know what happens? You don’t keep posting things on Facebook that try to manipulate people to not “judge” you. You don’t keep taking 1 step forward and then 5 steps back. You don’t run away when people challenge you. You stop hiding in retreats/conventions/speaker tapes. You stop being satisfied in what you think is spiritual and begin to actively put into practice what you are taught. You actually change.

I know that a lot of you won’t want to hear this. You want to blame it on being emotionally immature, or on not knowing “how” to change. You want to drag the people who are actually able to walk in righteousness down and make them your equals. You want to spend hours upon hours soaking in your self pity and talking endlessly about how God loves you just the way you are.

One of the best things anyone ever said to me was that yes God loved me exactly as I was…but that He refused to let me stay that way!

Make no mistake about it. The reason why you haven’t changed much is simply because you are not really willing to change. You think you are. But if you were – trust me, you’d be different. But you’re not. And some part of you knows it.

Quietly committing to change, quietly staying humble and taking direction without a weekly rebellious uprising is genuine willingness.

You are free to stay sick, to wallow in your self-indulgent emotionalism that you try to peddle as religious experience, you are more than welcome to stay in the maze of your ego – but I won’t ever co-sign your suicide pact. Because that’s what it is. All of your games, your double mindedness, your attempts to take our inventory (lol), they are all easily seen through as feeble attempts to distance yourself from your own inability to be honest with yourself. Because if you were honest with yourself you would see that you don’t really want to change and that you are the author of most of your confusion and futility. That would be a very scary and terrible place to be so I understand the great lengths you go to try and avoid it – but the great news is that God will meet you there. I guarantee you this – He will not meet you anywhere else, and no real solid, Holy Spirit powered change will ever occur in you without it.

By the way, if you think this is about you  – then it probably is. Who else would it be about?

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Strengthen Your Brothers

“Simon, Simon, behold, Satan demanded to have you, that he might sift you like wheat, but I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. So when you have repented and turned back to me again, strengthen your brothers.” (Luke 22:31-32)

‘How unbecoming to the character of a follower of Jesus, is the worldly ambition of being the greatest. Jesus, who took upon himself the form of a servant, and humbled himself to the death of the cross! In the way to eternal happiness, we must expect to be assaulted and sifted by Satan. If he cannot destroy, he will try to disgrace or distress us. Nothing more certainly forebodes a fall, in a professed follower of Christ, than self-confidence, with disregard to warnings, and contempt of danger. Unless we watch and pray always, we may be drawn in the course of the day into those sins which we were in the morning most resolved against.

If believers were left to themselves, they would fall; but they are kept by the power of God, and the prayer of Christ. Our Lord gave notice of a very great change of circumstances now approaching. The disciples must not expect that their friends would be kind to them as they had been. Therefore, he that has a purse, let him take it, for he may need it. They must now expect that their enemies would be more fierce than they had been, and they would need weapons. At the time the apostles understood Christ to mean real weapons, but he spoke only of the weapons of the spiritual warfare. The sword of the Spirit is the sword with which the disciples of Christ must furnish themselves.

Satan in his temptations strikes principally at the faith of God’s people; that being a grace which gives much glory to God, and in the exercise of which believers have much peace, joy, and comfort; both which he envies and grudges; and it is also a shield which keeps off, and quenches his fiery darts, and is a piece of armor he is sadly harassed with, and therefore endeavors all he can to weaken and destroy it, or wrest it out of their hands.

But though, through the power of sin, and the force of temptation, it may fail as to some degree of the steadfastness of it, as to the acting and exercise of it, and as to the sense believers may have of it; yet never as to its principle, it being an irrevocable gift of God’s grace; a work of his almighty power; a solid and substantial grace, even the substance of things hoped for; an immortal and incorruptible seed, and of which Christ is the author and finisher; and to nothing more is its security owing, than to the prayers of Christ, which are always heard, and to his powerful mediation, and prevalent intercession; Christ is the advocate of his people; he prays that they might have faith, and then he prays, that it may not fail; and it shall not, notwithstanding all the opposition of hell, and earth, unto it.

“And when you have turned back to me (converted), strengthen your  brothers” Peter was now an already converted man, and had been for some years; but whereas he would fall by temptation into a very great sin of denying his Lord, and which was attended with such circumstances as made him look like an unconverted, and an unregenerate man; his recovery by the fresh exercise of faith in Christ, and repentance for his sins, is called conversion: and which was not his own act, but owing to the power and efficacy of divine grace. Peter, after his recovery strengthened the faith of his brothers and sisters in the Messiah, and on the day of “Pentecost” preached a most excellent sermon, which as it was made useful for the conversion of three thousand sinners, was, doubtless, a means of confirming the minds of the disciples; and he has left exceedingly useful epistles for the strengthening of his brethren in all ages of time; the design of which is to establish the saints in faith and holiness, that they may not be drawn aside, and fall from the steadfastness of their faith, either by the lusts of the flesh, or by the persecutions of men, or by the error of the wicked.’

Today’s word of meditation: “strengthen”: Make use of your bitter experience for the fortifying of your tempted brethren.

To read the whole chapter and commentary see: http://biblehub.com/nlt/luke/22.htm

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Walking vs. Running Away

Monday, November 3rd, 2014 RE-Post

Second only to the “Disease Got Him”, this post is my #2 most viewed post in the month of October. I wrote it back in February – but it’s one of my posts that I get the most questions and emails about. Every first of the month or so I will be reposting the most viewed/asked about post of the past month to keep the “conversation” going. This is one close to my heart – well – they all are actually, but this one seems to be the most relevant in the last few weeks. btw – I appreciate all the heartfelt emails and messages – thanks again for sharing your hearts with me and supporting my passion for writing. xx

Walking

The #1 ministry that God has given me – is my son. It is the number one ministry that he gives to every mother. Everything else follows, motherhood may be closely linked to and a part of our church life, evangelism and outreach, but God in His infinite wisdom and wonderful grace has given mothers a very specific ministry, and it has been my obedience to His will in this that has taught me and trained me in what true ministry work really is.

This isn’t a blog post defending the much debased and ridiculed traditional roles of women, rather it is a springboard for what real discipleship looks like. There are hundreds of “believers” that I come in contact with every year that are hungry, seeking discipleship, mentorship, community. They “want what I have” and are impassioned to follow in my footsteps and in the footsteps of my close brethren who walk this walk with me. Invariably the majority fall away..looking for quick fixes..avoiding the painful work that is required to truly grow. They run from the very thing they have been searching for.

The problem, is that the very qualities and dynamics necessary for proper biblical discipleship and community are absent from most of what these people have been presented with for years, and so when they come in contact with real community, real accountability, REAL relationships, they buckle.

There is a reason why my 12 year old son has more emotional maturity, more spiritual stability than people 3 times his age, and demonstrates a startling discernment absent from most – it is not because “as my son” he reads the Bible 24/7, it isn’t because he stalks my every post cutting and pasting my wisdom to his wall, it isn’t because he attends spiritual retreats and compulsively downloads sermon podcasts. It is quite simply that he walks with the wise. He walks with us.

That is what real ministry is, it is a daily walk with Christ, a daily walk with those you claim to be taught by…daily…consistently…continuously walking…working…praying…reading….growing.

Through great times and scary transitions. Through thick and thin, everything that  I am is poured out for my son everyday, that was the beginning of my ministry. That is the only kind of ministry that disciples and grows real, mature Christians.

In our fast paced, disposable culture of throwing away friendships in a click of a Facebook button, of walking away from anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable, of hopping from teacher to teacher and church to church – these droves of “believers” are stuck in a delusion of what community, fellowship and Christ’s family actually is. They have drunk from the cup of spiritual pride that has seduced them into thinking they can recreate the body of Christ. Because they think that by blocking and deleting and hiding from people who challenge them, and by shunning churches that refuse to hand over the keys to a new convert, they are trailblazers…when in reality…you are foolish children.

My prayer for you is that you would set aside the burning rebellion and chokehold of pride that grips you – it seems impossible, but you can do it, and pray for genuine humility and a teachable heart.

“He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.” Proverbs 13:20

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